The Secret to Relaxed Family Photos (Even with Toddlers!)
Let’s be honest — the idea of a “relaxed family photoshoot” can feel like a bit of a myth when toddlers are involved. Between snack negotiations, rogue wellies, and the occasional meltdown over the wrong colour scarf, things don’t always go to plan. But that’s exactly where the magic lies.
I’ve been photographing families for years and one thing I know for sure? The best photos aren’t about perfect poses. They’re about connection, laughter, and a bit of organised chaos. And the word “SAUSAGES” yelled at the top of their little lungs.
💛 Here’s the secret: let go of perfect.
Children — especially little ones — have their own rhythms. The more we try to control every moment, the less joy we’ll catch. That’s why I take a very gentle, go-with-the-flow approach. We’ll choose a beautiful spot (a meadow, a riverside walk, even your own garden) and just… be in it. I’ll quietly capture the giggles, the cuddles, the slightly sticky fingers. The real stuff.
🌿 It’s all in the prep.
I’ll chat with you beforehand so we can pick a time that suits your family (and their nap schedules), choose clothing that’s comfy but cohesive, and talk about what kind of moments you want to remember. You don’t need to rehearse — just show up as yourselves. I’ll do the rest.
📷 Some of my favourite shots?
They’re the ones in between. A child running towards mum, arms outstretched. A quiet look between partners. The wind catching a dress. These aren’t the moments we plan — they’re the ones we feel. And those are the ones that last.
So if you’ve been putting off booking a family photoshoot because you're worried your toddler won’t sit still — good. I hope they don’t! Some of my most joyful images come from that very energy.
💌 Ready to Capture Your Family As You Are?
If this sounds like the kind of shoot you’ve been craving, I’d love to hear from you. I offer family photography across Tewkesbury, the Cotswolds and surrounding areas, always with a calm, natural style and plenty of laughter.
📍 Serving: Tewkesbury, Cheltenham, Stroud, Cotswolds, Midlands
📧 Book now or say hello: HERE
Let’s make something beautifully real.
— Ellie x